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Ireland Leigh Ann Hendrickson Born March 16th, 2005 Heaven Bound April 6, 2005
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After being blessed with two awesome boys, Tayler, in 1993, and Hoton, 2002. Dave and I were given our gift from God. A beautiful little girl. The daughter I've always wanted. My dreams, and everything I have ever wished for came true on March 16th, 2005, at exactly 7:53a.m., Ireland Leigh Ann, 7lbs, 20 1/2 inches long. She was born at 38 weeks, a scheduled C-section, due to a tubal that we had previously planned. She was perfect. Little did I know, too perfect. She was beautiful, healthy, alert and ready to come home on March 19th. I was too. The weather even cooperated with us. Up until our drive home it was snowing. Just before we left the hospital it stopped. We pulled into a freshly shoveled driveway. A great big thanks to our neighbor. Just one of the many big hearted earth angel's we've met.
It was great to be home,
spring break time, too. So Tayler could share some time at home helping
out, and getting to know his new sister. The boys were already protective
of her, right from the hospital. Spring break meant other visitors as
well. Grandma, Aunt April, Aunt Laura, Aunt Lori, and cousins, too. In
that first week I had a lot of help. The second week, visitors started
slowing down. So when I wasn't showing her off, Dave, I, Tayler and Holton
worked on getting to know her better. Ireland is so perfect, so beautiful,
so alert, so tiny. These are just a few of the wonderful words used to
describe her every day. Everyone who met her said these words over and
over. During her second week, March 29th, was her two-week check-up.
Everything was fine, she was everything she was expected to be, and did
everything she was expected to do. No complaints.
We started working on a
routine. Dave went back to work and when he would come home at night he
would put Ireland on his knees and stare and talk to her, while I got a
moment to myself. I would lie in the hot bath and recall the wonderful day
I shared with Ireland, Holton, and the after school hours I shared with
Tayler. It was challenging, but I'm a mom, it's suppose to be that way. I
love it. After my bath, I would feed Ireland, lie down with my husband,
and get up every three hours. She latched on perfectly, and ate very well.
Good thing because it was my first time breast feeding, and I was a bit
nervous.
April 5th, it was Tuesday.
Ireland woke up at 6:00, and at 9:00 a.m., just like any other day. Dave's
day off, he took Tayler to school, off to get his morning paper, and
coffee, and sit a bit in the park. He came home at about 10:30 to a crying
baby, and his wife unable to calm her. Dave tried to calm her. I tried to
feed her. She wasn't feeding very well, and I couldn't calm her down. I
rocked her, danced with her, sang to her , rubbed her little tummy, her
head, and gave her so many kisses. Dave did the same. He sat with her and
rocked her in the glider. He sang; "Old Mac Donald, " and he had every
animal on his farm. Even one's that didn't belong on a farm. Giraffee's,
elephants, monkeys, and more. Ireland would calm down a little, but start
crying again. I even took her for a ride in the car. She would love car
rides. This time was different. Ireland never felt warm, so I didn't think
it was necessary to check her temperature. Neither of us knew what to do.
Dave mentioned that I could call nurse direct. I said; "Why??, to ask why
my baby is crying, I'm the mommy, I'm suppose to figure it out." She
finally fell asleep at around 12:30. Dave, I and Holton were playing in
the back yard. Dave was telling me his plans for turning the shed into a
playhouse. He pictured her running around outside with her dress blowing
in the breeze. Smiling and dancing in our yard. I was staring through the
patio door watching and waiting for any little movement from Ireland. I
wanted to pick her up and hold her. It was one of my favorite things to
do. Dave kept saying. "let her rest, she needs it." I didn't disagree. At
about 3:30, Dave had to leave, he had some errands to run. Tayler was
going to be home from school any minute, I had my chance. Besides, I
thought she hasn't fed very well, she has to getting hungry. I gently
picked her up and tried to wake her. I took her in her nursery to change
her. She started waking up, she started crying, but just little whimpering
cries. While I was changing her she pooped all over and got pretty messy.
I made her her first bath in her bath tub. While I bathed her I noticed
her eyes rolling around. Babies do that, it's probably normal. I didn't
know at the time that my little girl was having a seizure. She didn't feel
warm, but she had been crying, as long as she is naked, I thought I'd take
her temp. It was 103.9 I immediately called her Dr. He was with his last
patient, the nurse advised me to take her to the walk-in. I called my
husband, and my sister. Dave was here in minutes and we were ready to go.
As Dave put her in the car, he noticed that she was spitting from the
mouth, and her eyes were rolling in the back of her head. It felt like it
was taking April a long time to get here, even though she was here in
minutes. Dave made the decision that we were going to the ER, she was too
sick for a walk-in clinic. We got to the ER and the doctors and nurses
moved quickly, doing every test and giving her antibiotics. They told us
that they treat her first, and then figure out what is wrong. The doctor
told us she was very sick, and that she would have to go to The Children's
Hospital. They continued to do the tests they needed including a spinal
tap. We were unable to be in the room when they did the spinal. We waited
outside the door. Then we seen nurses running around, fast. One nurse came
out and said they couldn't do the spinal, her breathing slowed down, too
much. I was so scared. She explained that they stuck a tube down her
throat to help her breath. The ambulance got there and I rode with them.
The driver keep telling me that she was doing very well. I kept looking
back and the nurses and paramedic weren't messing with her. So I felt
pretty hopeful. We got there quickly and they brought her into the
isolation room, I met the doctor, and got out of her way. I waited in the
family room. I was pumping some milk, and Dave got there. We called all
our family members, friends and work. Everyone was praying for her. This
was a highly rated hospital, one of the top 5 in the country. I kept
thinking they can take unfinished babies and make them grow. My little
girl is just sick, they can fix her. I put so much faith into the doctor,
that death never entered my mind. My mom and my brother came to the
hospital. Shortly after they showed up the nurse came into the family room
and said we could see her. Dave and I went into the isolation room and
talked to the doctor. Although Ireland had more tubes, more IV's, her
color was looking better. At that time Dr. Katie told us the spinal tap
was a success, and they knew it was meningitis. Later lab tests showed
Strep B. She told us we may have caught it in time. We stayed with Ireland
for awhile, kissed her little forehead and told her over and over that she
could beat this. We went back to the family room and shared the news with
mom and Tim. At about 11:00 p.m. Ireland had been breathing about 75% on
her own, and her color was so improved. There really wasn't a place for us
to sleep comfortably, so we went home. The doctor even went home. At about
3:12 a.m. I got up to pump, debating whether I would check on my little
girl via phone, or go and see her, I had the phone in my hand. It rang, it
was the doctor calling from her home. Ireland's health has worsened. Mom
came over to stay with the boys, and we met the doctor at the
hospital. Ireland's heart rate was changing drastically. Her brain was
swollen, the doctor said it would be damaged. We talked to Ireland more
and more watching all the monitors, the doctor and the nurses. We had her
baptized. Dr. Katie started pumping her little chest, like she was
pumping Ireland's heart by hand. I wrapped my little girl's hand around my
finger, noticed a teardrop fall. It wasn't mine. I saw Dr. Katie shake her
head, she said; "she doesn't have a heartbeat." They were unhooking her
tubes, when my parents arrived. We held her and cried. I did not want to
give her back. My little girl, my angel.
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